In California there are oral sex classes where the learning process is carried out with the help of plums and sweets. In England there is a school where a young girl is acting as practice material. It would be great to attend one of those schools, but for those of us who don’t plan on putting that on the agenda anytime soon, here are the ten simple rules, which come in handy when applied in practice.

1. Warm-up lap. The more energy and time you put into preparing your girlfriend for cunnilingus or oral sex, the more results your efforts will bring. A bubble bath with rubber toys (not a vibrator, just regular ducks!) can serve as such a preparation. Let her into the bathroom and happily lie still. After a couple of minutes you can go inside yourself, take off your underwear, shout: “Look who’s here” and jump into the water. Then start with light, unobtrusive stroking – stroking, kissing and massage.

2. Once the underwear is gone. After drying off after the bath, proceed to create an intimate atmosphere. Everything like in romantic movies: candles, dim light, clean sheets. The essential condition of an orgasm is a long and correct foreplay. When she starts tearing at her clothes with passion, lay her down on the bed with determination, plant a long kiss on her lips, and then head south.

3. Science of the clitoris. We are not going to review what the clitoris is and where it is located. We will only take note of the fact that girls are not mass-produced in some factory, they are all very different, and their sexual physiology is no exception. Some have the clitoris higher up, others lower, others have the clitoris sunk into the folds of the skin, and still others have it sticking out. In other words, there is no single universal approach for all girls. Obviously, the sensitivity is also different for everyone: the deeper the clitoris is hidden, the less contact it has with the outside world and the more tender and complete it requires treatment. The main thing is not to attack a newly found clit like a five-year-old who just got a transforming robot. Begin with light strokes of the tongue along the labia and around the clitoris, gradually contracting the radius of action until you are in the final stretch. When your tongue is focused on the clitoris, use one hand to caress her breast and the fingers of the other hand to slowly enter the vagina.

4. Power of silence. The best way to tell if you’re doing the right thing is to talk to the girl. Of course, if you ask her, she’ll say, “Yeah, I feel great,” or she might not say anything. So ask her to take her hand in hers and have her masturbate with her hand so that she can feel which movements and where she likes best.

5. Expand the horizons. A clitoris is not a magic button that guarantees an orgasm. Don’t focus too much on it, because it can actually be painful for her. Lots of other cool stuff down there. You need to enlarge the application area of ​​the mouth and fingers. In fact, what we usually call the clitoris is actually just the head of the clitoris. The shape of the clitoris actually resembles the penis, except that its body is not outside but inside under the so-called hood. Feel the clitoris and squeeze it with the upper ends of the labia between your fingers. You will feel something similar to a wire: this is the body of the clitoris. Try masturbating it like you would your own penis, only much slower and more carefully. You will experience completely special and incomparable sensations that you are unlikely to have experienced before. Now you can legitimately demand a generous reward from her.

6. Aptitude of the language. Your tongue is a muscle, and like all other muscles, it can get tired from intensive work. Therefore, you need training. Try to keep these exercises a secret from your girlfriend.

Exercise 1. Take a ripe plum and squeeze it between your palms. Try to break it and remove the stone with your tongue. The movements of the tongue should at least resemble those that you perform during cunnilingus. The goal is not only strength, but also skill.

Exercise 2. Take the “Tic Tac” drops, squeeze one between your lips and start sucking it into your mouth and let it come back. Your goal is to achieve maximum range of motion so that the droplet remains pressed between her lips at the same time. When you’ve mastered this trick, add your tongue and lick the drop off in a circular motion.

Exercise 3. Squeeze any round lollipop between your teeth and try to pierce (or, to be more exact, lick) a hole with your tongue.

7. I will slap you. Many of us think that the clitoris can only be licked and rubbed. We wholeheartedly feel sorry for those boring and limited people. Place the palm of your hand on her pubis with your fingers pointing down and gently tap her clitoris with your index finger. This will cause a flow of blood and increase your sensitivity. Keep in mind that you can do it not only with your finger but also with your tongue. After 15-20 seconds change tactics. For example, spread the folds of skin attached to the clitoris, place your finger on the clitoris, and start to rotate it like a joystick. One more option that is also good for the beginning is to completely bare the clitoris and blow (or breathe) on it, after which you can continue with your normal wet tongue or finger procedures.

8. Let’s go! It’s time to show all the power of your tongue. Your muscles are very active and mobile, but very few people use their full capabilities. As a general rule, many people limit themselves to unoriginal movements of the tip of the tongue. You should try something different. Run the wide middle part of your tongue over the lips so that you can completely cover them. Do several movements like that and then focus on the clitoral area and massage it with the tip of your tongue. Now try to alternate these movements. Gradually focus more and more of your attention on the clitoris. To diversify your entertainment program, flex your tongue as hard as you can and try to insert it into her vagina.

9. The main reflex. Remember exercise #2 with the “Tic Tac” drop? It’s time to use this trick on a girl. Separate the folds of the skin of the vagina as much as possible so that the clitoris is bare, take it with your lips and pull slightly inward. Then, in the same way as described in exercise no. For #2, add the tongue. The main thing is to be very tender and careful. Before this, of course, prepare it using the techniques in point 8.

10. Happy ending. Observe his hip movements. But just watch, don’t copy them. When moving, it tries to adapt to the rhythm of your movements and position itself in the most comfortable and pleasant way. Keep doing the same thing at the same pace. Trade one movement for another only when she is still. Do not grab her feet or anything with your hands, give her maximum freedom of movement. You can put your hand on her stomach: flexed abs are the first sign of the coming orgasm. At this point, you should forget about any experiments and continue doing what she has been doing up until now, at the same pace and in the same range. When you reach the long-awaited orgasm (you will most likely feel it either from muscle contractions or deep breathing, or from moans and cramps), wait until it is over and stop. She does not need to do anything else, otherwise it will cause her unpleasant sensations.

Now you can relax your tongue and stretch out on the sofa. It’s your turn!