7 destructive habits of incompetent people
CAVEAT! If you want to have a fantastic life, never engage in these 7 deadly habits of incompetent people.
NUMBER 1 – They think, say and do negative things.
Yes. They see problems at every opportunity.
They complain that the sun is too hot. They cursed the rain for ruining their plans for the day. They blame the wind for ruining their hair.
They think that the whole world is against them. They see the problems but never the solutions.
Every little difficulty is exaggerated to the point of tragedy. They see failures as catastrophes. They are easily discouraged instead of learning from their mistakes.
They never seem to move forward because they are always afraid to step out of their comfort zone.
NUMBER 2 – They act before they think.
They move by instinct or impulse. If they see something they like, they buy it right away without a second thought.
Then they see something better. They regret and curse for not being able to take advantage of the deal.
Then they spend and spend again until there is nothing left. They don’t think about the future. What they seek is the pleasure that they will experience in the present.
They don’t think about the consequences. Included in this group are those who practice unprotected sex, crimes and the like.
NUMBER 3 – They talk much more than they listen
They want to be the star of the show. That’s why they always strike up conversations that would make them heroes, to the point of lying.
They are often unaware that what they are saying is no longer sensible.
When other people advise them, they close their ears because they are too proud to admit their mistakes.
In their mind they are always right. They reject suggestions because it will make them feel inferior.
NUMBER 4 – They give up easily
Successful people treat failure as stepping stones to success.
The incompetent give up at the first signs of failure.
At first, they may be excited to start an endeavor. But then they lose interest pretty quickly, especially when they find bugs.
Then they go and look for a new one. Same story and same results. Incompetent people do not have the persistence to go ahead and fulfill their dreams.
NUMBER 5 – They try to bring others down to their level
Incompetent people envy other successful people. Instead of working hard to be like them, these incompetents spread rumors and try every dirty trick to bring them down.
They could have politely asked these successful ones. But no, they are too proud. They don’t want to ask for advice. Also, they are too negative to achieve anything.
NUMBER 6 – They waste time
They don’t know what to do next. They may be content to eat, get drunk, watch TV, or worse, stare at a blank wall with no thought of improving their lives.
It’s perfectly fine to indulge once in a while. But time must be managed efficiently to be successful. There must be a proper balance between work and pleasure.
NUMBER 7 – They take the easy way out
If there are two paths to choose from, incompetent people would choose the wider path with fewer rewards than the narrower path with much better rewards at the end.
They do not want any suffering or difficulty. They want a good life.
What these people don’t know is that what you reap is what you sow. The efforts and action will not go unnoticed.
If only they were willing to sacrifice a little, they would be much better off.
Successful people made it through trial and error. They never give up. They are willing to do whatever it takes to achieve what they aspire to in life.