It is always what you say that decides the fate of your relationship. While saying the wrong things will end your relationship, saying the right words can help save it. Here’s what to avoid saying and what to say to your boyfriend to get him back.

wait before doing anything

The thing is, if you say something too soon, it will most likely backfire. Before you make a move and try to say something to your boyfriend, you want to make sure you’ve let a bit of time pass. Make sure your boyfriend doesn’t hate you and is willing to at least listen to you.

admit your mistake

The first thing you should do is admit your mistake. The fact that you are taking ownership of your actions and are willing to go above and beyond and even take ownership of what was beyond your control is something that will not go unnoticed. This will surely make your boyfriend feel much better.

Apologize

Just admitting your mistake is not enough. You have to follow up with an apology. Tell your boyfriend that you are very sorry for what you have done. Tell your ex that you really feel bad about hurting him and that it was never intentional. Don’t validate what you did or try to justify your actions unless he asks you to. Make the apology sincere.

say you were lucky

Make your ex feel a little better by telling him that you feel like you were very lucky to have him in your life. All you need to tell him is how enriched his life has been because of him and how much you have grown as an individual because of his presence.

Keep spite and negativity out.

When you talk to him, he may say some things that you think are unfair. The best thing for you is to swallow your pride and listen to it. Smashing the negative things about him now will only make things worse.

listen to it

Listen to what you are saying. Sometimes listening is just as important as saying things. When you give him a patient audience, you can understand his side of the story and figure out your next move.

wish you the best

Once your conversation is over, all you need to do is wish her the best like you mean it. Tell him that all you want is for him to be happy even if it means you have to be sad. He will see your good side and he will soon be back with you.